So, on Thursday I went to a local museum with Long Hair. I did a bit of an experiment and layed on some heavy kino (physical touch). I was really surprised by how receptive women can be when you just take the lead. I reach over to give her a hug and she hugs me back. I give her a little bump with my elbow and she bumps me back.
Afterward, I suggest that we go get some dinner at a nearby restaurant and we get into a fun, flirty conversation (thanks to some conversation skills I picked up from Charisma Arts). I then walk her back to her car, and as we're saying good bye, she jumps up and kisses me.
This may sound pathetic, but that was my first kiss in about a year. I had forgotten how nice warm lips can feel when their pressed against yours. I'm a little glad that she took the initiative and kissed me because for some reason I have trouble going in for the kiss myself. I don't know if it's some kind of fear of rejection or sexual shame, but there's something holding me back.
Also, I have trouble opening my mouth and spitting out an SOI (show of interest ala Charisma Arts). Probably for the same reason. I see clear opportunities to tell her she's sexy, but I just can't get the words out...
Over all, I'd say I did a good job. The relationship (if you want to call it that) has been escalated a bit. I also found some sticking points I need to work through.
Sunday, March 18, 2007
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